The short answer is YES.
Yes, when writing your will, you have the power to disinherit your child and leave nothing to him or her. This is true in every state except for Louisiana, which does not allow a testator to disinherit a child under the age of 24 under the state’s “forced heirship” laws.
Leaving an inheritance to your child or children is not a legal requirement. But it is a cultural norm, and many children expect to inherit something upon the death of a parent. Some of those children then go on to contest the will or take other legal action to try to get what they believe is their fair share of the deceased’s estate.
For that reason, consider using some of the strategies below when intentionally disinheriting a child to reduce the likelihood of litigation after your death. The goal is not only to ensure your child doesn’t inherit a large amount from your estate, but also to help prevent legal action that could invalidate the will entirely.
Strategies for Disinheriting a Child in Your Will
Make your intentions clear
Name the child and be explicit about your intentions. Use language like: “I have intentionally chosen to make no provision for [Child’s Full Name] in my will.” (Consult an attorney in your state for the exact language to use in your will.)
Without this kind of language in the will, a child can make the case that the parent simply forgot to include them and make a claim for a share of the estate.
Consider a small inheritance instead of nothing
Rather than leave your child $0, you may want to leave a modest sum. It should be large enough to deter your child from taking legal action. This can soften the blow of being fully disinherited, too.
Include a “no-contest clause”
The tactic above is especially effective when used in conjunction with a “no-contest clause.” A no-contest clause states that if the child contests the will, he or she will not receive the inheritance.
Note that not all states recognize or enforce no-contest clauses. South Carolina does.
Disinheriting a Child FAQs
Should you include the reason for the disinheritance in the will?
In many cases, it’s best not to specify why you’re disinheriting the child. For one, wills become public during probate, so omitting details helps maintain privacy. Also, stating a reason could provide the disinherited child with grounds for contesting the will.
However, if you’re not leaving anything to your child in the will because you’ve made provisions for him or her outside the will, then it can be helpful to include this information.
To tell or not to tell?
A common question when disinheriting a child is, “Should I tell my child they are not in the will?”
At our firm, we advise our clients not to tell the child that he or she is being disinherited, for two main reasons.
- You may change your mind. Relationships and circumstances change, and you may decide in the future to make a new will leaving an inheritance to your child.
- Telling a child he or she is being disinherited can allow them to start building a case to eventually contest the will.
This does happen. We had someone call us who was upset his mother’s will left everything to his three siblings and nothing to him, as he had essentially already received his inheritance outside the will. He wanted to sue, which we told him was not possible as his mother was still alive. Instead, he started to monitor her movements, hoping to gather evidence of lack of testamentary capacity so he could contest the will after her passing.
Ultimately, it’s your decision whether to tell your child what’s in your will or not. In our experience, we recommend not doing so.
Call Estate Planning Attorney Gem McDowell
For help creating or updating a will, call Gem at the Gem McDowell Law Group. He and his team help individuals and families in South Carolina create personalized wills and estate plans that reflect their unique circumstances, family dynamics, and wishes. Call or contact us at our Myrtle Beach or Mount Pleasant, SC offices today to schedule a free consultation at 843-284-1021.
